Advice To New Comer Student Of Universties

advice to new comer of universties

As you all have come from different backgrounds , different families and every student comes up with his/her own story so never judge anybody based on their appearance , their attire , n their language just be kind to everyone and you will see you will be surrounded with a lot of good friends/mentors and that my dear fellows is really important in university life . If you have good people around you means your life is easy and if not it becomes difficult but in some cases teaches you alot !
Some tips :
➡For girls , know your decent limits n interact with opposite gender with pride and confidence and respect them .
➡For boys , know your decent limits too and respect girls as you respect your own mothers /sisters .
➡In classes be nice and friendly and helping towards everyone 🙂 by doing so you'll have a good time at university life 🙂
➡If you face any difficulty in studies and need help seniors are there to guide you as well as your teachers . Just give your best n be determined .
➡GPA is important but not important than other things too , believe me in professional life they don't need your GPA , they need skills and your confidence ! So don't always run towards attaining high gpa's . run towards learning good moral values and ethics . If you have less gpa don't get depressed just try next time harder than before but with a relaxing mind than you'll achieve your goals step by step I.A 🙂
➡And yes if you don't know anything about socities at UOS ask the concerned persons about their respective society and know where you fit perfectly / what skills you want to polish . i would recommend you all to join them because it enables you to grow your social network plus it improves your communicational and management skills.
➡don't trust people blindly and don't believe on rumors too . judge people by your own instincts and your own observation .NEVER ignore your gut feeling .
➡NEVER , i repeat never share your personal life with anybody because people around you all are different and who knows they'll ditch you at the end . So NEVER tell your weaknesses to anybody . always stay up and stay happy infront of the world no matter what situations you're going through . Belive me it will really help you maintaining your good reputation at university n you'll be thanking me for this suggesion 😛
➡Know how to respect your parents and teachers and elders . PLEASE be serious in your studies and don't waste your parent's money , instead by your achievements make them proud :')

Secondly , you never know what a person is going through in his/her life so PLEASE don't comment on anyone's personal life because you don't know anything at all neither you have right to judge anybody . So commenting on a thing which you don't know at all is called accusation and even if you know still commenting / sharing with others is backbiting.

Hadhrat ‘Ala b. Harith narrates that the Prophet of Allah (P.B.U.H) observed: Those who accuse the innocent and those who go about backbiting, both classes of people shall be treated like dogs. (Abdul Shaikh)

Learn to hide faults of others so that Allah hides YOUR faults on the day of judgment .

Thirdly fear Allah and fear from hurting any innocent heart in any way that they are left with no option than to surrender their matter to Allah . And when Allah takes the responsibility than the results are destructive !

If you hurt someone in anyway at anytime in your life than apologize to them before its too late because if you will not than even Allah can't forgive you because now that forgiveness lies in THAT person's heart .

Lastly , be happy and stay positive no matter what the situation is / what the circumstances are , just hold yourself up and stay determined you will see you won't even make your life beautiful but other's life too 🙂
So best of luck everyone out there reading this 🙂 i hope this post will make a difference in your lives 🙂